Venus square Neptune natal creates difficulties with how you love yourself and others, leading to low self-esteem and disappointment in love without corrective action. Loving yourself is essential to having healthy and loving relationships. Therefore, learning to love yourself is vital in addressing this challenging aspect.

It is familiar with this aspect to feel unloved, unlovable, victimized, and ostracized. You may think that you are too different or strange in the eyes of others and not accepted by the in-crowd. It is essential to realize that what you feel others think of you may not be accurate. If there were any truth to this perception, it would be mainly due to the signals you send about yourself.

Once you realize that Neptune distorts your self-image, you can improve your feelings about yourself. As Neptune rules mirrors, film, and screens, a great way to enhance self-love is to repeat positive affirmations in the mirror. As Venus rules beauty, improving your appearance through cosmetics and fashion can be worthwhile. Show off to yourself in front of the mirror, take selfies, even video yourself and see how beautiful you are. Dance around a bit, be sexy and strip off even. No one has to see… not if you don’t want them to.

Once you love yourself inside and out, you will find that your love life and other areas will improve. However, it is also possible that Neptune may distort your appreciation of other people. There would be a tendency to over-idealize romantic partners, being blind to their faults. This would leave you susceptible to significant disappointment, being taken advantage of or being someone’s doormat, or even their sex slave.

Another significant danger of not addressing your self-image is that of self-abuse. The opposite of love is hate; hating yourself would lead to a downward spiral of self-harm. This would include unhealthy eating, leading to either obesity or anorexia. Depression is a significant reason for addiction to alcohol and other poisonous drugs or medications.

Venus Square Neptune Transit

Venus square Neptune transit can lead to insecurity about yourself and your appearance. You may feel that others are looking at you oddly or think you are strange in some way. It is essential to realize that such impressions are distorted and do not match reality. A poor self-image at this time can lead to relationship difficulties. You can also experience disappointment in your love life by forming a distorted image of someone else. There is a tendency to over-idealize romantic interests at this time, ignoring the obvious faults which are plain for others to see.

Both situations leave you susceptible to significant disappointment, being taken advantage of or being someone’s doormat, or even their sex slave. This is very easy to deal with if you are in a healthy relationship due to mutual understanding and trust. Relationships on rocky grounds would be more problematic, and trust matters may become an issue. Starting an affair at this time would prove difficult to hide.

Although your heightened need for tenderness and affection may lead to a new relationship at this time, you must stay conscious of the confusing Neptunian influence. It would be wiser to wait until after this transit before committing yourself or being too trusting of another person.

Poor self-esteem and lack of self-discipline make this the wrong time for dieting or partying. You will be more susceptible to the depressive influence of alcohol and more susceptible to poisoning in general, and addiction is more likely if you dabble in drugs. Regular users should beware of overdose, infection, or being ripped off by dealers.

Venus Square Neptune Celebrities

John Belushi 0°02′, George Windsor, Earl of St Andrews 0º06′, Andy Gibb 0º08′, Belinda Carlisle 0º09′, Louise Michel 0º09′, Eduard Dietl 0º11′, Cindy Sherman 0º11′, Jeffrey Wigand 0°12′, Ewan McGregor 0º15′, Tina Turner 0º15′, Stevie Nicks 0°19′, Christy Turlington 0°20′, Allan Kardec 0°20′, Omar Sharif 0º22′, Alan Page 0º23′, Richard Ramirez 0°24′, Marie Antoinette 0º32′, Marguerite Duras 0º27′, Diane Keaton 0º35′, Henri de Toulouse-Lautrec 0º38′, Luke Evans 0°40′, Katey Sagal 0º52′, Nicolas Cage 0º55′, Kim Kardashian 0º58′, Moses Annenberg 0º58′, Kirsten Dunst 1º00′, Stacy Keach 1º01′, Hilda Doolittle 1º04′, Adolf Eichmann 1º08′, Paul Claudel 1º09′, Billy Graham 1º16′, Robert Graves 1º19′, Georges Seurat 1º19′, Whitney Houston 1º44′, L. Ron Hubbard 1º54′, Josef Mengele 1°57′, Marine Le Pen 1°57′.

Venus Square Neptune Dates

January 19, 2024
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