Pluto square Ascendant natal makes you highly competitive, and this can have a particularly negative impact on your close relationships. A subconscious fear that others are trying to control you can lead to intense drama in life. Believing your rights are threatened can also cause intense power struggles in your relationships.
Finding a healthy balance is essential but challenging because your subconscious fear of being taken advantage of seems to complicate and spoil your relationships. Your deeply probing, curious, and secretive nature can make people suspicious of you. And your persistent, stubborn, uncompromising, and jealous nature can also make others believe you are trying to control them.
Conscious awareness of your powerful influence on others can help you know when to ease off. Otherwise, your intensity can spiral out of control, ending in psychological abuse, separation, stalking, intimidation, threats, ultimatums, revenge, conflict, and violence. Learning to compromise and trust is a big life lesson for you, and it is also essential that you be as open and honest as possible. Sometimes you will need to make sacrifices to make a vital relationship last.
Beware that your fascination for the dark and mysterious does not lead to an infatuation with very intense or dangerous people like criminals and drug addicts. A deep curiosity about sexuality can lead to exploring bondage, dominance and submission, and other taboo areas.
Natal Pluto square Ascendant can cause a fear of losing your father, obsessive-compulsive disorder, extramarital affairs, domestic violence, lying, blackmail, a superiority complex or racism, persecution, and victimization. It can make you very forthright, sarcastic, intelligent, penetrating, bitter, and hurtful. But it also gives the potential for a high degree of spiritual evolution to transcend the need for power and control in intimate relationships.
Pluto Square Ascendant Transit
Pluto square Ascendant transit brings incredible intensity and the potential for drama in your interactions with other people. A particular significant relationship may undergo a major transformation that changes the direction of your life. Your close one-to-one relationships, like your marriage or business partnerships, will go through the most significant upheaval. Unhealthy relationships may end and be quite traumatic for you. If you feel like a relationship is in trouble, it most likely is.
If a meaningful relationship is causing problems, you should avoid being nasty. You may tend to act ruthlessly or out of revenge. Any psychological abuse or underhand tactics will worsen things and almost certainly lead to the total breakdown of the relationship.
But this is no time for being shy, either. The best approach is to deal with any relationship dramas as soon as possible to avoid messy complications. With a willing partner, you could work through your power and control issues by exploring new sexual experiences. Dressing up, role play, domination, and submission or bondage could positively transform a troubled relationship.
A new person may enter your life with a profound effect. Powerful forces are behind the scenes, and any new relationships will have a solid karmic or compulsive feel. Infatuation and obsessions are possible. It is essential to be conscious of the likelihood of power imbalances in any new relationship, especially if you have just been through a separation.
It is also essential to be as honest as possible. Affairs at this time could leave you vulnerable to stalking, blackmail, or violence. A new partner might take advantage of your vulnerability even if they are not consciously aware they are doing so.
Power struggles will help you understand your weaknesses to work through them. Awareness is half the battle won. This testing phase of life can transform your relationships and profoundly transform you psychologically. You should come out of this transit with a greater understanding of yourself and relationship dynamics.
Pluto Square Ascendant Celebrities
George Blake 0°02′, David Letterman 0°08′, Tracy Austin 0°16′, Meghan Trainor 0°19′, Evonne Goolagong Cawley 0°21′, Jo-Wilfried Tsonga 0°24′, Greta Scacchi 0°27′, John Cena 0°28′, Kate McGarrigle 0°36′, Althea Flynt 0°36′, David Frawley 0°42′, Ferdinand Marcos 0°49′, George III of the UK 0°50′, Alice Cooper 1°04′, Mark David Chapman 1°08′, Chris Brown 1°09′, Princess Beatrice of York 1°15′, Lee Iaccoca 1°21′, Nick Campion 1°27′, Steve Winwood 1°29′, Barbara Hutton 1°37′, Marguerite of Navarre 1°41′, John Bobbitt 1°43′, James Degorski 1°44′, Billie Eilish 1°46′, Dian Fossey 1°46′, Billy Graham 1°56′, H. G. Wells 1°58′.